MENTORING
Find Freedom From Porn
Christian Mentoring In One-On-One And Group Settings
To Help You Find Lasting Freedom
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography and masturbation.”
— Former Mentee
Why Getting Free Has Felt So Hard
YOU DON'T KNOW WHY YOU KEEP GOING BACK
You genuinely want to stop. You’ve prayed, confessed, made promises, maybe read the books, but the cycle keeps repeating. Deep Waters helps you look beneath the behavior so you can understand the story, triggers, beliefs, and needs driving it.
YOU'RE TRYING TO FIGHT WITHOUT ENOUGH SUPPORT
Trying harder in private usually does not create lasting freedom. You need honest accountability, practical guidance, and other men who are learning to fight with clarity instead of shame, secrecy, or vague encouragement.
YOU'RE TIRED OF STARTING OVER
After enough setbacks, it can start to feel like freedom is possible for other men, but not for you. Deep Waters gives you a structured path forward so failure becomes information, not proof that you are hopeless.
I'm Here to Help
KEN ANDERSON · DEEP WATERS MENTORING
Finding freedom from porn is hard enough—but doing it on your own is next to impossible. I struggled with porn and masturbation for 10 years, then spent the next 3 years stumbling towards freedom. There were so many things about recovery I had to learn the hard way, because I didn’t have someone to guide me who had been in my shoes, and actually found lasting freedom.
Guessing your way forward and hoping for the best is a recipe for frustration and staying stuck. However, following the lead of someone who has battled their way through a 10-year addiction, found lasting freedom, and helped others do the same is a recipe for success. I’ve been there; I’ve found freedom, and I’d love to show you how you can, too.
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MENTORING THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
Deep Waters gives you a clear path for fighting pornography with structure, honesty, and support. Whether you begin in The Workshop, weekly 1:1 mentoring, or daily support, the goal is the same: clarify what is driving the struggle, build a practical game plan, and learn a better way to fight. Click the button below to learn more.
TOGETHER, WE’LL WORK TO:
› Understand what’s driving the behavior beneath the surface
› Build daily habits that support healing and lasting change
› Develop a practical plan for temptation, triggers, and difficult moments
› Use weekly assignments and personal check-ins to keep moving forward
› Track your progress, learn from setbacks, and adjust the plan when needed
› Replace secrecy and isolation with consistent support and connection
Find the support that fits.
The Deep Waters system stays the same across each option. What changes is the level of access, personalization, and support you receive.
Group Mentoring: The Workshop
$99 / month
A weekly group for men who want structure, biblical encouragement, practical tools, and honest accountability without starting one-on-one mentoring. Join anytime and begin building a better way to fight.
Learn more about The Workshop
Train with a plan. Fight alongside other men.
You do not have to figure this out, or fight it, alone.
The Workshop combines a self-paced Deep Waters training program with weekly live group mentoring. You will work through practical teaching, videos, readings, and exercises designed to help you understand your struggle and learn a better way to fight.
Then, each week, you will meet with Ken and other men for honest conversation, practical help, encouragement, and accountability.
You will also have access to the Deep Waters tools, including habit tracking, emotional check-ins, and practical protocols to help you put what you are learning into practice.
- Weekly live group mentoring
- Self-paced Deep Waters training
- Videos, worksheets, and practical exercises
- Guided reading and reflection
- Daily habit and progress tracking
- Deep Waters tools and protocols
- Ongoing community and accountability
Mentoring Options
Start with The Workshop, step into one-on-one mentoring when you want personalized guidance, or choose daily support for direct text or voice-message access between sessions.
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One-on-One Mentoring
$499 / month
Weekly private mentoring with Ken for men who want personal guidance, a clear plan, and help understanding what is driving their struggle beneath the surface. Includes full access to The Workshop.
Learn more about one-on-one mentoring
A personalized plan. Weekly guidance.
You do not need another list of things to try. You need a clear plan for your specific struggle, and someone to help you put it into practice.
You will meet one-on-one with Ken every week to understand what is keeping you stuck, identify the patterns behind your struggle, and build a personalized plan for lasting freedom.
This is not just a conversation about how the week went. You will track your progress, learn from setbacks, identify what is working, and continually adjust your plan as you go.
You will also receive full access to The Workshop at no additional cost, giving you weekly group mentoring, self-paced Deep Waters training, and a community of men fighting alongside you.
- Four private mentoring sessions each month
- A personalized plan built around your specific struggle
- Progress tracking and ongoing adjustments
- Deep Waters tools, trackers, and protocols
- Full access to The Workshop
- Self-paced Deep Waters training
- Weekly group mentoring and community
One-on-One Mentoring + Daily Support
$799 / month
The highest level of support for men who want weekly private mentoring plus direct text or voice-message access between sessions, so you can get help in the moments when temptation, triggers, or setbacks are actually happening.
Learn more about daily support
Your highest level of personal support.
Sometimes you need help on Tuesday, not just at your next mentoring session.
This option includes everything in One-on-One Mentoring, plus direct access to Ken between weekly meetings.
You will have the option to text or send a voice message each day, whether you are struggling with temptation, recognizing a pattern, working through a setback, asking a question, or simply need encouragement to keep fighting.
Instead of waiting until the next meeting to figure out what happened, you can address challenges while they are happening and continue strengthening your plan throughout the week.
- Everything in One-on-One Mentoring
- Four private mentoring sessions each month
- Daily text or voice-message access to Ken
- Support and feedback between sessions
- Full access to The Workshop
- Self-paced Deep Waters training
- Weekly group mentoring and community
Compare the mentoring options.
| What's included | The Workshop | One-on-One Mentoring | One-on-One + Daily Support |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monthly price | $99 | $499 | $799 |
| Self-paced Deep Waters training | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Videos, worksheets, and exercises | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Deep Waters tools and trackers | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Weekly Workshop group | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Community and group accountability | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Weekly private session with Ken | No | Yes | Yes |
| Personalized plan | No | Yes | Yes |
| Individual progress review and adjustments | No | Yes | Yes |
| Daily text/voice access to Ken | No | No | Yes |
| Support between private sessions | No | No | Yes |
The Workshop
$99 / month
- Self-paced Deep Waters training
- Videos, worksheets, and exercises
- Deep Waters tools and trackers
- Weekly Workshop group
- Community and group accountability
One-on-One Mentoring
$499 / month
- Everything in The Workshop
- Weekly private session with Ken
- Personalized plan
- Individual progress review and adjustments
One-on-One + Daily Support
$799 / month
- Everything in One-on-One Mentoring
- Daily text/voice access to Ken
- Support and feedback between sessions
- Highest level of personal support
All one-on-one mentoring includes full access to The Workshop at no additional cost.
REAL MEN. REAL CHANGE.
Men who once felt stuck in the same cycle have learned to fight differently and experience real change.
“Ken really helped me understand both my emotional state that was undergirding my addiction to pornography and the habits that were making it harder to find lasting freedom. I’ve discovered a ton about myself through his mentorship, and I’ve been able to establish habits and practices that have led to lasting change.”
— Former Mentee
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography usage and masturbation.
It was during my time as a member of a mentoring group led by Ken that I finally saw what it would take to grow out of this addiction and the hope that I could truly have. Ken never sugarcoated anything or made me feel terrible but instead truthfully told me what I needed to do to grow and encouraged me along the way.”
— Former Mentee
“Ken has been great to work with! He really took an interest in getting to know me and working with me in my struggle with sexual sin. He looked into the root cause of my sin and helped me develop strategies to fight my addiction. I would recommend Ken to anyone who needs one-on-one help with sexual sin.”
— Former Mentee
MENTORING THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
More than a mentoring call.
Addiction thrives in chaos but wilts under the weight of clarity and structure. Finding freedom takes more than good intentions—you need a plan for what to do in real moments of temptation, and a system to help you carry it out.
The Deep Waters portal and app give you practical tools to track habits, complete check-ins, work through assignments, practice protocols, and see your progress over time. In mentoring, we use that information to understand what is happening beneath the surface and adjust the plan as needed.
A WEEK OF MENTORING AT A GLANCE
1:1 Mentoring Meeting With Ken
Regular 60 minute zoom or phone calls to work through obstacles, discuss assignments, and give you the targeted help you need wherever you're feeling stuck.
Daily Habit Tracker + Emotions Check-In
Build the necessary habits to meet the underlying needs driving the unwanted behaviors, learn to engage your emotions rather than numb or medicate them, and do it all from your phone or computer.
Weekly Assignments
Address the root of your struggle by exploring your story, triggers, and beliefs through weekly assignments. To find lasting freedom, you have to go beneath the surface.
Accountability + Connection
You'll be encouraged with the hope of the gospel, pushed to do what you know you should do but may not want to, and coached in how to deepen your connection with God, yourself, and others.
Protocols for Hard Moments
Know exactly what to do when you’re tempted, triggered, or recovering from a slip-up. We learn from the hard moments and don't lose heart when we make mistakes. In light of grace we learn from slip-ups, adjust our plan, and keep moving forward.
Use the Deep Waters online portal and app throughout the week to track your habits, complete check-ins, work on assignments, practice your protocols, and see your progress over time. This tracked data will give you and Ken vital information for how to best utilize your mentoring meetings.
REAL PROGRESS
Curiosity, not condemnation.
Why do we track how you’re doing with practicing your habits, slip-ups, etc? It’s NEVER to shame you. It’s so we can get an accurate picture of where you’re getting stuck, investigate why, and then keep moving forward in a way that will actually lead to change.
We believe in process, not perfection. If you slip-up, we don’t reset a counter and tell you to try harder. We get curious. What was happening beneath the surface? What were you feeling? Where did the plan break down? What can we learn? And how do we move forward in light the good news and hope of the gospel?
See how this process played out in real life for a Deep Waters Client below:
PROGRESS TAKES TIME, AND THAT’S OKAY.
Real progress from a Deep Waters client
Feb 2 – Mar 9
Mar 29 – Jun 5
Jun 26 – Aug 7
Aug 8 – Present
“Temptation overall has continued to be at a good level. I have not really been feeling too tempted overall. 70 days is awesome, and we keep moving forward.”
— Deep Waters client
Real Men. Real Stories. Real Progress.
Using our app to track helps us recognize patterns, learn from setbacks, celebrate growth, and make better decisions about what to work on next.
HOW DOES IT WORK?
GETTING STARTED
REACH OUT TO KEN
Tell me where you’re stuck or ask a question. I’d love to hear from you!
CHOOSE THE RIGHT NEXT STEP
I’ll reply personally, and from there we can decide on the best next step.
IMPLEMENT THE NEW SYSTEM
I’ll be with you every step of the way as you put your personalized plan into action.
See the Deep Waters Framework
In this teaching, Ken explains how story, triggers, choices, and process shape the cycle of pornography addiction, and how Deep Waters uses habits, practices, and protocols to help men fight differently.
See the Tools You’ll Use Between Sessions
If you’re wondering what support looks like between calls, here’s a quick walkthrough of the habit tracker, app, client portal, and resources that support the mentoring process.
MENTORING FAQ
Questions You May Have Before Starting
Is Deep Waters counseling or therapy?
No. Deep Waters is Christian mentoring, not professional counseling or therapy, and isn’t intended to replace mental-health treatment when that is needed.
Do I have to be a Christian?
No. You don’t have to be a Christian to work with Deep Waters—but you should know that the approach is explicitly Christian. My faith in Jesus shapes how I understand freedom, identity, grace, confession, community, and lasting change. You don’t need to have everything figured out spiritually, but you should be comfortable engaging with a Christian approach.
What if I've been struggling with pornography for years?
Deep Waters is designed for men who have often tried repeatedly to change. How long you’ve struggled doesn’t determine whether change is possible. The goal is to understand your particular patterns and begin learning a different way to fight.
Which Deep Waters option is right for me?
If you want an open group setting with teaching, accountability, and community, The Workshop may be the best place to begin. If you want personalized guidance, One-on-One Mentoring is the best fit. If you want direct support between sessions, One-on-One Mentoring + Daily Support offers the highest-touch option. If you’re not sure, reach out and Ken can help you decide on the best next step.
How long does mentoring last?
The Workshop is ongoing and month to month. One-on-One Mentoring begins with a clear 16-session curriculum that usually takes about four months. One-on-One Mentoring + Daily Support also follows the Deep Waters process while adding direct support between sessions.
How long is each mentoring meeting?
One-on-one mentoring meetings are one hour. The Workshop is a weekly group meeting.
Do I have to commit long term?
No. Mentoring is offered one month at a time. You are not required to commit to the entire curriculum upfront, and you can stop at the end of any month if it isn’t what you were hoping for.
What happens during a typical week of mentoring?
Along with your mentoring meeting or group rhythm, you’ll use practical assignments, daily habit tracking, emotions check-ins, accountability, and protocols for difficult moments. The goal is to keep applying what you’re learning between meetings—not simply talk about it.
What’s included with the online portal and app?
The Deep Waters online portal and app give you one place to track habits, complete check-ins, work through assignments, practice your protocols, and see your progress over time.
Is mentoring confidential?
Your privacy matters. What you share in mentoring is treated with care and discretion, except in situations where safety or the law requires otherwise.
What if I'm not ready to talk to someone yet?
Start with A Better Way To Fight. It’s free and designed to help you begin understanding why your current approach may not be working and what you can do differently.
What if mentoring isn’t a good fit?
You’re not locked into a long-term contract. You can cancel before the beginning of your next month of mentoring.
First-Month Guarantee: If you don’t believe Deep Waters is the right fit after your first two live sessions—or after your first two weeks of One-on-One Mentoring + Daily Support—let Ken know within 48 hours of that point and he’ll refund your first month’s payment in full.
After that initial guarantee period, payments are nonrefundable, but mentoring is still offered month to month.
Taking the first step can feel hard, but good things almost always lie on the other side. Send me a message about where you’re feeling stuck, any questions you might have, or any ways I can help. I’ll reply personally, and from there, together, we can decide on the best next step.
NOT READY TO TALK YET?
A Better Way To Fight
A free practical guide to fighting pornography effectively.
Learn why relying on willpower alone doesn’t work—and begin building a better approach to the fight.
FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE.
You don’t have to keep fighting the same way.
Whether you’re ready to work with someone or just ready to take your first step, you can start fighting differently today.