Why can't I stop?
If you’ve ever asked yourself this question, you’re not alone. Why is it that we despise our porn use one moment, and the next find ourselves giving into it again? It’s almost like we’re two different people.
Are you tired of:
•Not living in alignment with your values?
•Desperatley trying to quit but continuing to struggle?
•The gnawing fear of being caught?
•Wondering if you’ll ever be free?
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you can find freedom
But you can't do it alone
Set yourself up for success with...
An experienced mentor
Weekly meetings with Ken, a mentor with 10 years of freedom from porn, to help remove the guesswork from recovery.
A Crystal Clear game plan
A 12 week curriculum that will show you how to actually find freedom.
Our coaching portal
An app to easily communicate with Ken, track progress, and walk you step by step through the proven process to finding freedom.
We know what it's
like to feel stuck
You don't have to stay there
“Ken has been great to work with! He really took interest in getting to know me, and work with me and my struggle with sexual sin. He looked into the root cause of my sin, and helped me develop strategies to fight my addiction. I would recommend Ken to anyone who needs one on one help with sexual sin.”
Experience You Can Trust
122,640
Hours working In ministry
14+
Years of mentoring experience
200+
Hours of training
10
years of Personal Freedom
100+
Lives Changed
Mentoring Options
Go with the right one
Individual Mentoring Basic
Individual Mentoring Advanced
Individual Mentoring Premium
How do I get started?
Step 1
Schedule a free, zero pressure 30 min phone call with Ken to get to know one another, share where you're at, and see if working together makes sense for you. If what you've been doing isn't working, and you're serious about freedom, we'd love to chat.
Step 2
Together, we'll discuss what's been keeping you stuck, how we would address it if we worked together, and what your next best step would be.
Step 3
If we decide to work together, we'll get you set up on our coaching portal and get the recovery process started ASAP. If you decide not to work together, no hard feelings! You need to find what's right for you.
Current Approaches aren't working
About Me
My Story
My name is Ken Anderson. I struggled with unwanted sexual behaviors for 10 years before I got serious about finding freedom. Over the course of the next three years, I did find freedom, and since then have enjoyed helping other men find it too. Working in ministry over the past 14 years has backed up the statistics that the vast majority of Christian men struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors, and don’t know how to stop. My dream is to offer hope and practical help based on scripture, science, and experience to any Christian man who desires to see change and live a life of sexual integrity.
FAQs
A few things:
- Overcome struggles with pornography, masturbation, and other sexually addictive behaviors
- Understand what drives them to act out sexually
- Help them replace unhealthy sexual behaviors with God-honoring, life-giving healthy ones
Yes! If you aren’t 100% satisfied, you will get a full refund. Here are the specifics:
a) One-on-one Mentoring: If you aren’t satisfied after 4 meetings, you’ll get a full refund. After the first 4 meetings, moving forward clients are expected to pay for one month in advance with no refunds.
b) Book Group: If you aren’t satisfied after 2 meetings, you’ll get a full refund. After 2 meetings you will owe the entire amount.
I struggled with unwanted sexual behaviors for over a decade, and eventually was able to obtain and maintain freedom from these behaviors for the past 9 years. During this time I’ve helped other men experience freedom, and I love seeing men find healing and joy as they recover. I want other men to experience the joy, freedom, and hope that living a life of sobriety can offer.
I have worked with hundreds of men over the past 14 years in my job with the Navigators collegiate ministry. I have discipled men, led bible studies, and led sexual addiction recovery groups. In this time I’ve achieved my own sobriety, and have successfully helped others do the same. Because of the hard earned wisdom of being an addict and recovering myself, combined with my years of experience mentoring men, knowledge of the Bible, and successfully helping other men overcome sexual addiction, I feel confident in my ability to help other men do the same.
I have taken an in-depth mentoring training course through the organization Bravehearts (https://bravehearts.org/), and have received extensive counseling in my own life. Mentoring is not professional counseling/therapy, and is not intended to be a replacement for it. Rather, in this scenario, it is coming alongside someone struggling with sexual addiction and using one’s personal experience in this area to coach them in how to find freedom. Much like a guide leading someone safely up and down a treacherous mountain, a mentor uses their personal experiences and success in “climbing the mountain themselves” to help the mentee.
A one hour meeting once per week either in person or via zoom/phone. Ken and the mentee will cover multiple topics, including: How to cultivate healthy, vulnerable, authentic relationships with other men, taking extreme measures to remove sin from one’s life, processing emotions, and teaching men how to let the gospel penetrate their hearts.
Mentees will also complete weekly online check-ins pertaining to their recovery which will be discussed during each session, as well as assigned content during the week.
Duration: Client will sign up for 4 sessions at a time (unless mentee opts for the Basic plan of 2 sessions per month)
Cost:
Basic: $249 per 2 sessions
Advanced: $399 per 3 sessions
Premium: $499 per 4 sessions and a daily voice memo with Ken
This is a great question, and unfortunately I have a very annoying answer for you in return: It depends.
Everyone’s struggle is different, and thus, so is everyone’s recovery journey.
With that said, the program and content I take men through takes 16 weeks. But remember, while clients pay for services at the beginning of each month (no refund except for after the first 4 weeks), you can stop at any time. You’re only on the hook for the 4 weeks you pay for in advance.
You are also always welcome to extend beyond the 16 weeks if you’d like to keep working together.
Yes! I speak at men’s retreats as well as one off events about how men can live lives of sexual integrity. I seeks to both inform and interact with the audience and to provide foundational knowledge as well as actionable next steps.
I addresses multiple topics, including:
- How to cultivate healthy, vulnerable, authentic relationships with other men
- Taking extreme measures to remove sin from one’s life
- Processing emotions to discover the deeper issues beneathe the surface driving the unwanted sexual behavior
- Teaching men how to let the gospel penetrate their hearts.
Additionally, audience members will leave with practical tools for fighting against unwanted sexual behaviors, and will have time to take what they’ve learned to create their own personalized battle plan.
I love working with men, and I have loved helping men in my life find freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors.
At one point in my life I had given up hope of ever being free, but God has been so gracious and helped me find freedom, and it has improved every area of my life.
Too many men feel trapped, as I did, and fear they will never be free. Many don’t know who to talk to or what to do next. I feel confident that if you are willing to be open, work hard, and work the program, you too can be free. I would absolutely love to get to know you, hear your story, and help you in your journey.